Entry #4 Broken Heart + Childhood

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    Opening up about your family and its difficulties is not everyone cup of tea, but if the title caught your attention, WELCOME! This will not a fairytale blog but instead some harsh reality. No way trying to scare you away, but we are evolving, and even faster when time passes, and you are married and with children. 

    Breaking cycles should be a life lesson, I am not sure where to put it in life, but it should be taught somewhere. Many grow up in a household, with parents having their own personal traumas, that to this day they might not know of, but it had caused damaged in life that as a grown up, is hard to fix. That whole statement itself is why it is important to fix traumas so future children to not have to fix themselves later on in life.

    Growing up with a broken heart from childhood is very real and sometimes without knowing tend to do the same pattern with our children. Reading how break those cycles and maintain consistency, is a healthy way to start a change. After all, we don't want our children to feel what we have felt.

    What we decide to do as a parent to fix our inner child should not be taken lightly and shouldn't feel ashamed. In today's society, there is help, we need the help! Image a life where our children are spending their adult life with you in it, where discussion are not making you feel like a failure in parenthood. It is possible. It has to start with us having the courage to break the cycle.