What once was a house full of children running around and a busy mother, has turned into loneliness. Yes! It's real. The feeling is there. Raising three kids and a husband that was gone all day, all of sudden your routine changes, as a mother and wife, the feeling is valid. 
After facing the reality, one has to start finding herself. Our life was at a pause but now with time, helping financially or getting back to school are options.
Trying to create a new lifestyle when you are lost and trying find your-self again is difficult. There is so much that one can do but where to start or take the first step is painful.
Do not feel guilty for doing so, a happy woman equals a happy home. When starting to focus on us, starting out with how much time you have and what you would like to spend your time on, takes a lot thinking.
Books, a quick internet search, a magazine or even a TV show, is also a great start.
When in doubt, remember, if you were able to be a mother and survived with your children, you can do more.
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